7 MINDSETS THAT ATTRACT WOMEN LIKE CRAZY
The Power To
Naturally Attract A Girl Comes From Within
Keep in mind that
these mindsets take time to train into your subconscious. But it is well worth
the effort because these beliefs are so foundational that adopting them
transforms not only your entire dating life but everything else you do as a man
as well. You can make others feel great, make women want to be with you, you can even turn a girl’s “No” into a
“Yes”!
Alright, I’m super
excited to share this content with you guys, so without further adieu, let’s
dive right in.
MINDSET #7
EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE
EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE
One of the most fundamental
mindsets that guys who are good with women share is that, no matter what
happens socially, everything will be fine in the end. Sure, there may be
situations where you slip up and say something you wish you hadn’t, or when you
end up feeling embarrassed or rejected. However, an attractive man sees these
for what they are: temporary inconveniences or – even better – learning
lessons.
With an “everything
will be fine” mindset, you’ll immediately begin to come across as more calm
and at ease in any scenario, and women will immediately feel calm and at ease
in your presence, ready to open themselves up to you. This means opening up
their hearts, minds, and bodies to you in a way that they will for few men
throughout their life.
MINDSET #6
I DON’T HAVE TO PROVE MYSELF TO ANYONE
I DON’T HAVE TO PROVE MYSELF TO ANYONE
Let’s get one thing
straight – you don’t have to prove yourself to anybody else. A lot of dating
gurus out there say you need to convince a woman of your high value, but that’s
just another form of neediness, of needing to prove yourself – and therefore
comes across as low status and unattractive.
The truth is, there
is no need to “convince” a woman of anything in order to make her
feel attraction for you. This is because attraction is not a result of effort,
but a result of who you ARE. YOU are the only person you need to prove yourself
to, and adopting this mindset will help you focus on your own progress as a man
instead of others opinions, which in turn will attract hot women to you over
time.
When you offer no
apologies or explanation for yourself or your behavior, it demonstrates a level
of confidence and ownership that few men have, and women pick up on it. In
fact, I approach interactions with women wondering how THEY’LL prove themselves
to ME! It’s a complete reversal of how most guys interact, and women take
notice and are eager to show YOU why YOU should choose THEM!
For now, know that
there’s NEVER a good reason to try and convince a woman of your value by
telling her about how cool you are, how much money you make, or by proving
yourself in any way.
MINDSET #5
WHAT VALUE CAN I GIVE HERE?
WHAT VALUE CAN I GIVE HERE?
As a dominant,
confident male, you KNOW your life is good and you’ve got your shit handled. So
then the focus becomes not on what you can get OUT of an interaction, but
rather what you can give TO it.
Some examples of
things you can give are… Fun energy… Great conversation… A non-judgemental vibe
that allows people to express themselves… Basically, anything that adds more
positivity to the interaction. Women pick up on this vibe and will gravitate
towards you.
Now, inevitably
there will always be a guy who completely misuses this concept and gets
negative results. This will be the “logical-minded” guy who thinks that
I’m talking about TRADING value for something else in return. That’s not it at
all. Trading is NOT the same thing as giving. Giving is unconditional, it has
no strings attached. So if you THINK you’re giving and yet people aren’t
gravitating towards you, it’s a pretty safe bet that somewhere, maybe in the
back of your mind, you’re hoping to get something in return. In other words,
what you really want isn’t to give… It’s to trade – which doesn’t attract
people in the same way.
I
see guys run into this problem often when buying drinks for girls or giving
girls compliments. Those things aren’t an inherently bad game, but if you’re
just “giving” as a tactic to manipulate, control, or get something back, girls
will easily see through it. They may accept a free drink or feed off the
validation of a compliment, but in the exchange, you’ll lose their respect, and
ultimately their attraction.
As a mission I want
you to go out one night where the only intent is to give value. Not monetary
value but emotional value. Making people feel good without expecting anything
in return. This applies to both guys and girls. Give genuine
compliments. Ask their name and use it while you talk because everyone
loves the sound of their own name. Make people laugh and just
have a good energy and vibe by having a lot of fun. You can even give value by
leading people on experiences. For example, if you’re talking to a girl at a
bar, show her a fun time. Take her to play a game like darts, or giant
Jenga or verbal games like Fuck Marry Kill.
MINDSET #4
EACH INTERACTION IS AN INVESTMENT IN MYSELF
EACH INTERACTION IS AN INVESTMENT IN MYSELF
When going out and
meeting women, your main focus should be on the investment you’re making in
yourself – the fact that you’re improving your social skills, amusing yourself,
and developing your social circle. This mindset shift takes the emphasis OFF of
getting specific results in each interaction and gives you a longer-term
perspective in your development as a man. You stop worrying about the little
things like wondering what to say to a specific girl or whether or not she
likes you, and start focusing on the big picture – things like, am I
approaching more confidently and consistently? Am I enjoying myself and
contributing to the vibe? Am I getting the results that I want? Do I FEEL the
way I want to in each interaction?
Viewing each
interaction as an investment in yourself lets you focus on what’s directly
inside of your control, and forget about everything else. Do this, and watch
your “market price” as a man climb year after year. Having
girls pursue you for relationships will come as a natural byproduct.
MINDSET #3
I SAY WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT…
I SAY WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT…
Okay look, when
guys start coaching with us, a lot of them struggle with knowing what to say
and how to keep the conversation going. They see a girl at a bar, and the
conversation just dies after a couple minutes. They just don’t know what to
say.
But here is the
problem…
You see, when
you’re talking to someone, you have thoughts and opinions that come up… plenty
of them, but when most guys are talking to beautiful girls, they filter out
those thoughts and opinions because they think what they are going to say is
either not good enough, not interesting enough, or may offend someone.
What ends up
happening is an awkward silence.
Listen you have
plenty of thoughts… you just have to stop giving a fuck about what anyone else
thinks and just start saying whatever is on your mind.
Yes,
at first you will say some stupid things, but that’s okay. One, it doesn’t
really matter, and two… over time you’ll become more fluent in speaking your
mind and owning it. Over time, You’ll begin to feel more confident and happier
with yourself, and women will love you just for being you.
So many people go
through life as timid sheep, afraid of how OTHER people will judge what they
have to say, that when you get to the point where you’re comfortable saying
what you have to say and owning it, you will be a breath of fresh air to those
around you.
So do this, I want
you to go out sometime this week with one focus. Focus on just saying
whatever is on your mind.
MINDSET #2
THERE IS NOTHING THAT I NEED FROM ANYONE
THERE IS NOTHING THAT I NEED FROM ANYONE
You don’t NEED
much. Maybe water, shelter, food. There’s not much else you actually need. And
you can provide all of these things for yourself. Even if you live at home or
your family takes care of you somehow – if you were put in a position where
your life depended on your ability to take care of your basic needs, you would
find a way to do it.
An attractive man
knows that wanting something and needing something are two different things. An
attractive man may WANT a woman, but never NEEDS her – and that’s a very
important distinction. No matter how much you may want a girl, knowing you
don’t need her will help you keep things in perspective, allowing you to
communicate your true self with uncompromising confidence – a trait that is
extremely attractive to women. I call it the willingness to walk away,
if necessary.
MINDSET #1
LET ME SEE IF SHE’S WORTH MY TIME
LET ME SEE IF SHE’S WORTH MY TIME
Remember earlier,
when I mentioned not having to prove yourself to anyone? Guys that really crush
it with women take that a step further. They know their worth. And they know
that most people aren’t worth their time. I don’t mean this in a judgemental
way – it’s simply that life is short, your time is valuable, and you as much as
anyone else deserves to fill your time with people that live up to your
standards.
Coming into
interactions with this mindset sets up a “screening” frame – in other
words, you’re “screening” the girls you meet to see if they’re worth
your time. Think about how much of a reversal this is from normal dating
dynamics, where a guy spends all this money, time and energy trying to impress
a girl. That’s too much work – and it doesn’t work! It’s needy and tryhard.
Instead, let’s flip tradition on its head by getting HER trying to impress YOU
and prove why she’s worth your time.
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