LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT A GIRL OR WOMEN AND BE ATTRACTIVE
LEARN HOW TO
ATTRACT A GIRL OR WOMEN AND BE ATTRACTIVE
How do you approach a girl for the
first time? What do women find attractive? The answers may surprise you.
From energy polarity to masculine
traits, this article will teach you how to attract women effortlessly.
I live in a world foreign to most men –
a world where gorgeous women often complain that I’m not giving them enough
attention and ask me why I’m too busy for them. The truth is, they are amazing
girls and I would love nothing more than to be able to see them as much as they
want. But I only have so much time on my hands. Crazy, right?
I’m not complaining. I know a lot of
guys dream about having problems like this, and some men go their entire lives
never knowing what it’s like to have gorgeous women chasing them, vying for
their affection. In fact, many guys are completely lost when it comes to
attracting women, not knowing where to begin. Not too long ago, I was that guy
myself – though, after everything I’ve learned about women and how much my life
has changed as a result, it seems like another lifetime.
This is good news for you. If I was
able to learn how to attract women, then so can you. My goal is to help you get
there. And by getting there I mean knowing the basics and eventually mastering
how to approach women.
This article will offer you a
conceptual overview of what it takes to attract gorgeous women into your life
consistently. We’re going to start on the woo-woo end of the spectrum by
talking about Energy Polarity, and get more concrete as we go. It’s important
that you understand the more abstract, esoteric concepts in order to build
context for the more actionable tips I’ll give later on in the article.
Let’s dive in.
HOW
TO ATTRACT WOMEN
ENERGY POLARITIES (OPPOSITES ATTRACT)
Did you ever play with magnets as a
kid? If you did, then you’re familiar with the concept of polarity attraction –
even if you didn’t call it by that name. For those of you who aren’t familiar,
let me explain:
Magnets have two poles – a positive
pole and a negative pole. If you put two of the same type of poles together,
they repel each other. But, if you put opposite poles together – one positive
pole and one negative one – they will magnetically attract.
This same concept applies to attracting
women. Like magnets, humans have energy polarities – masculine and feminine.
Unfortunately, masculine traits such as aggression, confidence, and
assertiveness are demonized and discouraged by our society and systematically
weeded out. This leads to a culture of wimpy, effeminate men who, according to
the laws of energy polarity, can only attract masculine, dominant women – not
the alluring, feminine women that they truly desire.
Much of attracting the women you
actually want in your life comes down to reclaiming and deepening this
masculine polarity that is your birthright. This can be a daunting task, as it
requires a lot of retraining of your own behavior.However, once you’re rooted
in the solid foundations of your masculine energy, not only will you feel
amazing – but gorgeous women will flock to your side to bask in the presence of
your energy, with almost no effort on your part. In fact, all of the techniques
in the world can’t replace the effortless ability to attract women that being
rooted in your masculine polarity provides.
MASCULINE POLARITY TRAITS
So what are these masculine traits that
women find so attractive? And how can you go about developing them?
To understand the answers to these
questions, it helps to step into the shoes of the women you’ll be seducing.
While men are primarily focused on physical attractiveness when it comes to
dating – at least, initially – women have an entirely different set of
concerns.
Women are much more physically fragile
than men, and largely depend on the physical and psychological strength of a
man for protecting her and her child. Because of their fragility, they have
also developed an ingrained desire to be around males with high social status,
as men with higher status have access to more resources such as food, shelter,
and allies, and can, therefore, better ensure her survival and that of her
child.
If you’re thinking this sounds
very caveman-esque, you’re absolutely right – these traits
have been hardwired into the female psyche over hundreds of generations of
evolution. It’s almost universal (full lesbians excluded), and you’re not going
to change it. So the best thing you can do is develop the masculine polarity
traits that will trigger women’s deeply ingrained evolutionary bias.
To get a better understanding of what
types of behavior masculine polarity traits would include, think about the
way Conor McGregor handles himself during MMA press
conferences and matches. He comes across as assertive, strong-willed and even
aggressive when needed. He’s not timid and doesn’t shy away from calling people
on their shit. You get the feeling watching him that he’s confident in his
ability to handle himself against all opponents, and wouldn’t hesitate to throw
a punch if the situation calls for it.
Obviously, if you want to know how to
attract a girl, the last thing you’ll want is to get into is a fistfight.
However, when you’re able to project a sense of dominance and grounded
confidence that comes from being willing to stand up for yourself in all
scenarios, women can’t help but take notice of you.
Other traits associated with
high-status men that are rooted in their masculine polarity include:
·
The ability to
provide for and protect a woman
·
Having a network of
relationships with other high-status men
·
Walking through
life with unflinching confidence and ease
·
Maintaining your
cool in all situations
·
Leading those
around you
·
Entertaining
yourself (doing this shows that you’re relaxed and enjoying yourself)
·
…Hopefully you’re
starting to get the idea by now
So we know that the shortcut for how to
attract beautiful women is developing high-status, masculine polarity traits.
And we know what that looks like in a man. But knowing that information alone
is not enough! In order to develop attractive traits, you need to practice
these behaviors until they become ingrained into who you are.
That means creating specific,
measurable goals, much like improving in any other area or skill set. Do this
with the masculine polarity traits, and you’ll be well on your way to attracting
more gorgeous women into your life than you could have previously imagined!
HIGH-STATUS BODY LANGUAGE
When you’ve developed the masculine
polarity traits, you’ll naturally find yourself expressing these traits through
your words and body language, indicating your high status automatically.
Conveniently, it also works the other way around – using high-status body
language causes you to begin to feel a sense of confidence, dominance, and
status within yourself.
Whats the best way to approach a girl?
Here are some high-status body language keys to keep in mind:
·
Solid eye contact – High-status
men don’t shy away from eye contact. When you meet a woman’s gaze, do so with
grounded, calm, laser-like eye contact. You don’t want it to feel creepy or
intense, but rather relaxed and comfortable
·
Deliberate
movements – Avoid fidgeting, jerking, or sudden
movements as those indicate the emotional distress that accompanies low status.
Instead, make slow, deliberate movements that project an air of calm confidence
·
Being Non-reactive – In a social
interaction, the high-status individual is the one that other are reacting to –
not the other way around. Avoid physically reacting to other people. That
doesn’t mean you need to ignore them – simply take the time to deliberately
respond on your own terms. For instance, while I was typing this, the girl I’m
sitting with tapped my shoulder. Rather than turning to cater to her
immediately, I took my time to finish writing the paragraph before giving her
my attention.
In any and all interactions throughout
your day, you can begin to notice whether your body language is high status and
dominant, or low status and submissive, and make adjustments accordingly.
TIPS
TO ATTRACT WOMEN EFFORTLESSLY
1. BECOME THE LEADER OF YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE
Men who are leaders are incredibly
attractive to women. The fact that people are willing to follow your lead
indicates your status to women, making it much easier for you to meet and
attract them.
Becoming the leader of your social
circle is simple – it just takes a bit more effort than the average Joe is
willing to put in. Start planning events centered around your interests, and
invite people to attend. This can be huge epic parties or little get-togethers;
it doesn’t really matter. What’s important is that you’re taking the time to
lead your social group in a way that makes people feel good about following
your plans.
2. DRESS WELL TO CONVEY STATUS
In social interactions, appearance is
more important than substance initially. This is because, as much as we like to
think of ourselves as fair-minded, humans do judge based on perception. In
fact, as famed psychologist Robert Cialdini points out in his book Influence,
when you wear a suit, you will automatically be perceived as having higher
status and more authority than if you were wearing normal casual clothing.
This is because people imagine men in
suits to be more powerful, confident, successful, and so on based on their own
preconceived notions. The result? You can cause people to associate these
traits with you – whether not you actually possess them – simply by dressing
sharply!
3. THE ROLE OF COMFORT IN ATTRACTING WOMEN
While status is the driver for
attracting women, it’s not enough to make women feel at ease around you. For
that, you’ll need to build comfort.
Comfort is the sense of a physical and
emotional connection between you in the girl. It fosters a sense of trust and
makes the girl feel safe in your presence. While most guys who are learning how
to attract women don’t need to worry about comfort right away, it’s still worth
noting its importance. For now, put your focus on developing high-status,
attractive traits but know that comfort is an equal part of the good game as
well.
4. DEVELOPING ATTRACTIVE, MASCULINE TRAITS
To become as attractive as possible, we
want to develop high status, masculine polarity and comfort building traits
while systematically rooting out all traces of low status and comfort
destroying behavior. The way to do this is through repeated trial and error –
that is, going out, approaching women, and making incremental improvements.
There will be failure. There
will be rejection. If you’re not failing, that means you’re not pushing
yourself nearly hard enough. Each failure represents a weakness being healed
through practice. The faster you can fail and improve, the sooner you’ll be
surrounded by badass, amazing women, looking back and thanking your past self
for putting in the effort required for greatness. You’ve just been imbued with
the knowledge on how to approach a girl.
So get hyped!
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