HOW TO GET LAID MORE OFTEN – 7 THINGS YOU CAN DO RIGHT NOW
HOW TO GET LAID MORE
OFTEN – 7 THINGS YOU CAN DO RIGHT NOW
If
you’re new to “the game” you pretty much just try out random things that you’ve
learned in the hopes that it will land you some tail. This is perfectly fine
for the begging especially because only by doing this, will you, in time learn
exactly what works for you and how to shape your entire “game” mentality to fit
in perfectly with your personality and the chicks you like.
For
me, it was the same. When I first got introduced to game, I was doing as many
random approaches as I could possibly do a night and had seriously random
results (and a seriously exhausting experience). As time passed, my mindset
changed and I was able to see and understand exactly what it takes be great at
“the game”.
These
days I need no more than 3-4 approaches per night to score but, this happens
only because I take my time to make the right moves. In this article I’m going
to show exactly what and how I do things in order to work less whilst scoring
more.
Number
One – Pick the best venue
Picking
the right venue is absolutely fundamental. It doesn’t matter if it’s a bar or a
club or lounge whatever, it needs to be “the best” bar/club/lounge etc. “The
best” represents the location where you managed to score the most chicks, a
venue in which you’re comfortable whilst still being able to score, a location
that is close to other places and a fairly close distance from your house.
Also, it’s not about girl/guys ratio here, you don’t really need a lot of girls
as long as you’ve got the right type of girls and guys.
My
personal favorite venue is a fairly small club that has girls/singles night on
Wednesday. I almost always score when I go there because the dudes that
frequent this place are amateurs. This means many of them don’t approach or
approach late at night and the ones that do, suck at it. When I run my game, I
pretty much own the place.
Number
Two – Positioning
Ok,
now that you’ve got the venue sorted, it’s important to find the best position
in that venue. For example if you’re the dancer type, the best position for you
would be somewhere on the dance floor. Personally, I like to make
conversations so a good spot for me is somewhere at the bar or close to the
smoking area (I’ll get to that in a bit).
Once
you find the spot, stick there for a while and move on to number three.
Number
Three – Scouting
Now,
it’s time to have a look around. “Scouting” the females is the best thing you
can do at any particular venue. As I’ve previously mentioned, knowing what your
prospect is about, before approaching them, will save you an incredibly amount
of time, will stop you from looking like a dumb bastard when you get rejected
and will guarantee that you approach the best possible prospect with the highest
chance of scoring.
Basically,
every single night there will be at least 3 or so chicks that are really hot
and approachable plus a few more that are not so hot but you’d probably bang
anyway. After you identify these chicks, all you need to do is wait around for
an opportunity to present itself.
Number
Four – Move In
As
soon as you see an opportunity (girl you’ve added to your bang list comes
within reach) make the move. With regards to the smoking area, as soon as you
see the chick going outside for a smoke, go after her and make the move. I
personally prefer smoking areas for two reasons: the music isn’t that loud and
I smoke (if you don’t smoke, you don’t need to start smoking to talk to chicks,
this is just a personal thing).
Regardless
of where this takes place (outside, next to the bar, on the dancefloor) the
principles are the same. I approach her from the front so she can see me coming
towards her and then start up a conversation. I completely ignore her friends
for the first 1 minute or so as this gives me the perfect opportunity to see if
she’s willing to have a 1on1 conversation with me. If she isn’t, I instantly
drop her as I’ve got no time to waste on issues (she has bf, she’s out with
girls, I’m unattractive etc).
Of
course, if you’ve scouted correctly then the chances of this happening are much
lower.
Number
Five – Establish Her Desires
You
need to quickly establish what she wants. I usually switch from casual/fun
conversation to personal stuff quite early. In about a half hour I have a
fairly clear picture in my mind of what exactly it is that she wants. Does she
want to make friends? Make out? Date? Have sex tonight?
Now
the next part is purely based on what exactly is it that you want. If you came
out tonight looking for a one night stand and the chick isn’t down for that
right now (but may be after a date or whatever) then you need to casually wind
down the conversation and bust out. If she’s into whatever you’re into (making
out) then get ready to run your game.
Number
Six – Play your “game”
Now the
time has come to game this particular prospect. Because you’ve done everything
mentioned above this may very well be the second girl you’ve approached tonight
after only 1 hour of being in the venue. You already know she wants whatever
you want so it’s all down to how well your game is.
In a
club situation it’s best to do all the possible things that you can do in a
club. So apart from spitting all that conversation game, it’s good to change it
up and take her dancing, then back to the bar, then dancing again, if she
smokes, outside for a smoke then back dancing again etc.
After
about 1 hour, 1 hour and a half, if you had decent game you can probably get a
make out on the dance floor. Once you’ve got that out of the way integrate it
into your routine, bar – dance – make out – bar – make out – smoking – make out
… you get the picture.
After
another hour or two you can try to change the venue to another, quieter place
or back to your house since it’s “just around the corner”. Remember, the
second venue acts as a buffer so always propose it; she’ll have a much higher
chance of coming back to your place after she went through the buffer.
Number
7 – Avoid This
Avoid
approaching chicks on the dancefloor – even if you like dance approaches
because it’s incredibly hard to establish her desires as you’re just dancing
and not really talking.
Avoid
socializing with her friends – you need to be friendly but only for a 1 minute
or 2. I honestly don’t feel like befriending anyone, if I want the chick I just
go for her and if my scouting was on point she’ll want to talk to me anyway. As
long as you’re not rude to her friends, you don’t really need to do much
talking as cockblocks don’t appear if the chick is out to meet guys.
Avoid
approaching too many girls – this is why scouting is so important. Not only
will you approach girls of high probability but you’ll also dramatically reduce
the amount of rejections. If you get rejected by 4-5 chicks then other chicks
will see and you’ll be game over. You’ll either have to change your positioning
or the entire venue, so just don’t be an amateur. This is without mentioning
what getting rejected 5 times does to your confidence.
The
“game plan” I’ve just described is exactly what I did this Wednesday and scored
at my 3rd approach. Working this type of game requires some
serious conversational skills, going out solo and a decent amount of
confidence. If you’re not here yet don’t worry, just keep working that game.
The more you do it, the better you get at it and this is the best advice I can
ever give you.
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