Top 7 Easiest Ways to Get Laid & Raise Your
Notch Count
One of our readers, who goes by the handle
‘Sub-Zero’, has been on me to talk about the easiest ways to get laid I know.
He’s asked me this question a few times over the years, and I’ve given him a
bunch of notch count shortcuts. But he wants more. So I figured I’d put
together a definitive piece on this... compiling all the best ways I
know to get laid fast and put notches on your bedpost.
This post is entirely focused on practical,
fast-working means to up your notch count. It’s not focused on how to reach a
certain quality of woman or how to get a girlfriend. It’s not even focused on teaching you how to get girls in general. You may use it in conjunction with the other
material on this website on how to do better with women, be more attractive,
and increase your percentages with girls... Nevertheless, that’s not the point
of this post.
This post is fully and entirely dedicated to means
you can use to bed lots of girls with a minimum of seduction skill. As with anything, the stronger your skill set with women
and the more attractive you’ve made yourself, the more mileage you’ll get out
of each of these 7 ways.
Yet, these paths to put more girls in your bed will
work regardless where you’re starting out at.
So without any more ado, let’s give you those 7
different paths to lots of sex with lots of women.
I’m going to list out seven (7) different ways you
can use to get lots of notches, quick.
Note that three (3) of these require travel (or
long-term relocation). Four (4) of them are jobs. One requires a not-crazy-expensive
but not-too-cheap expense. If you want to bed lots of girls in a hurry, and
don’t want to take the time to develop awesome fundamentals and spectacular game, you’re not going to do it by just going to the same bars as
everyone else and doing and saying the same things as everyone else. These are
the ‘cheat codes’ to lots of sex with lots of girls... but you’ve still got to
type the code in. You’re going to need to switch things up.
But yeah – these are the shortcuts. The fastest,
easiest, most surefire ways I know to put women in your bed ASAP. And put lots of
women in your bed ASAP.
Below, I’ve ranked them in order of ease and
effectiveness, from 1 to 7. The first is the fastest, easiest, most reliable of
these ways to use... but even #7 still gives you an enormous advantage over
‘regular guys’.
Here’s the list.
#1: Sex Tourism
This is the only item on this list in which you’ll
pay directly for sex. It doesn’t appeal to everyone (not really my cup of tea –
but I have a few good buddies who are all about it)... yet there are a lot of
guys who do not care whether there’s money involved; they just want to get
inside as many new girls as possible, as fast as
possible. And this is hands down the fastest way to
do lots of volume.
Assuming budget is a constraint and you don’t like
the experience of going to a brothel or picking up a streetwalker, your best
bet is a country with hooker bars that let you ‘simulate’ the seduction
experience. You can find these everywhere from Tijuana, Mexico to Pattaya,
Thailand. Just walk into the bar, chat up girls, find one you like, take her
home, have sex, and pay her after.
If your goal is to build confidence approaching
non-working girls in bars or nightclubs, you should get a decent confidence
boost from banging girls you meet in hooker bars... even if you end up paying
for them. A friend of mine who frequents places like this describes the
experience thus: “It’s the complete male fantasy, come to life. You walk into a
bar, pick the girl you want, flirt with her for 5 to 10 minutes, leave the bar with
her, take her home, have sex (no resistance), the sex is passionate and
amazing... and at the end of it you slip her her money. No B.S.”
If you’re curious about this route, but worried how
it might impact your future dating success, I suggest you give my article on
prostitution a read. It’ll give you a deeper look at the pros and cons of this
path:
And of course, should you indulge in sex tourism:
wear condoms, and probably don’t kiss... a friend of mine just got done
battling a series of nasty respiratory infections he picked up making out with
one too many Thai working girls.
I should note that in seduction circles, hookers
generally do not ‘count’ toward your notch total. So if you are talking to a
seducer, and you’ve picked up and slept with 20 girls the old fashioned way,
and taken another 30 you paid for to bed too, your notch count to him is still
20, not 50. Outside seduction circles, though, your notch count will still
usually pass as 50... even if half those are paid.
Spots I see recommended as the best for sex tourism
include:
- Thailand
- Indonesia
- Philippines
- Mexico
- Brazil
- Colombia
- sub-Saharan Africa
... and possibly some parts of the Caribbean. You
can of course get prostitutes through Europe, Asia, South America, and Africa,
but for price plus experience, these countries are listed as the best. Best
prices, best-looking and most passionate women.
If you’ll go the sex tourist route, I suggest you
poke around on the web a bit and look for forums devoted to this. Start with a
search for “world sex guide” – you’ll find a ton of resources and can go from
there.
#2: Party Destination Job
One friend of mine got his start as a fire dancer in
an exotic resort town. After he finished a fire dance, there’d be a lot of
interested women around, and he took a fair few to bed. Another friend of mine
didn’t even bother to work; he just spent 8 months living in Koh Phangan,
Thailand, banging all the European tourist girls who came there to party. He
didn’t leave until his bank account had run dry, his liver had turned black,
and he’d had so much sex he didn’t want to see another girl for half a year.
Guys will often go to party destinations for three
to seven days, party, drink, hook up, then go home. You might get one new
notch, two new notches, or maybe three or four if you’re particularly active,
good, and on a roll.
But the secret some guys have figured out is if
you really want to get the most out resorts like these, you do
three things:
- Move there
- Get a job there
- Milk it for all it’s worth
The first time I realized this was something you
could do was on a trip to Shanghai in 2006. The group I was with went to a very
popular tourist bar. There, we were waited on by a cool, stylish Australian
bartender. Really cool guy. At first I thought it odd to see an Australian
working at a bar in Shanghai... but after asking him a few questions, I
understood why: he gets all the tourist tail he wants there.
It’s cool for the bar – they get to have a foreign
guy, which makes the place more exotic for locals, and makes foreigners feel
more at home. And it’s good for the guy – he gets to be around a constant
stream of the world’s most bed-ready women: girls on vacation who
just want to have fun.
After this meeting, I started to encounter guys
who’d worked as tour guides at resort spots, as bartenders there, as DJs
there... any job that gives them status and puts them in lots of contact with
lots of (horny young female) tourists. Tour guide is one I’ve had several guys
tell me worked extremely well for them – you lead the group around all day and
have ample time to flirt with the women you want, and it’s very easy to sleep
with several girls per group/trip. Leading expeditions in resort areas is
another useful angle – I’ve seen guys report cleaning up with tourist girls
from being a whitewater rafting tour guide, for instance. Take them down the
rapids, get them wild and excited, and after the trip it’s easy as pie to get
the girl you want.
Of course, location matters, in a big
way. If you sign up to be a tour guide in, say, a resort town that caters to
retirees, you won’t get many or any notches... unless grannies are your thing.
Some of the best locations off the top of my head
for party resorts are:
- Cancun
- Koh Phangan
- Mykonos
- Malta
- Ibiza
... though I’m only scratching the surface. And new
awesome party locations pop up all the time. Often the best ones aren’t super widely
known yet (e.g., they get lots of young people flooding in, but mostly the
early movers and in-crowd). Some resorts are seasonal (like Wildwood, MD,
Cancun, or Boracay), while others are year-round (like Koh Phangan, Mykonos,
Las Vegas, and Ibiza).
If you have an independent income, you can head to
one of these places on your own and not need to get a local job. You can just
work online (if you work remote) or draw on savings (if you’re retired or
taking a sabbatical). But local jobs have their perks, too – if you’re the
bartender or tour guide, you get instant high status versus all the tourists
who are merely passing through... and you have a very natural, easy way to meet
tons of women without having to go around and cold approach.
No matter how you tackle it, putting down roots
long-ish term in a high traffic party destination is the easiest way to
get laid in the world (short of paying for it, a la sex tourism).
#3: Third World Pickup
If you’re from the Western World, you’ll often find
it’s a lot easier to sleep with women in the third world. Eastern Europe, South
America, sub-Saharan Africa, Asia. Yet even among these locales, some locations
are even easier.
To get an idea how easy it is to get laid in some of
these locations, you may want to start with Fisto’s 2013 article, “How To Bang 3
Women a Day in the Philippines.” The article kicks
off with this line: I have slept with 51 Philippine girls from May 5th
until July 5th. Of course, that’s a little under two a
day... but the author notes he actually didn’t get his ‘system’ in place until
later into his trip.
If you’re unfamiliar with third world pickup, those
numbers might sound spectacular. But they’re pretty normal for any guy with
moderate-to-decent game who puts the necessary hustle in. I have seen guys do
50 girls in a month, or 90 girls in three months. The party only stops because
past a certain point you get bored of the parade of nameless women walking into
your door, taking their clothes off, spreading their legs, and marching back
out after. Once you’ve had your fill you either take a girlfriend or turn into
a monk for a while.
The best places in the world for this seem to be
(roughly in this order):
- Philippines
- Indonesia
- sub-Saharan Africa
- Brazil
- Colombia
Sub-Saharan Africa may actually be higher; I don’t
know enough guys who’ve done it and can compare it to the other places. And the
Dominican Republic is another possible option, but I’ve not heard it discussed
enough.
If you’re looking specifically for white women
(which is something I hear a lot; both from white men and from non-white men),
Colombia, like Argentina, is a predominantly white European nation (unlike,
say, Peru, which is predominantly Inca or mixed white-Inca; or Brazil, which is
a melting pot of white, native, and black populations). Eastern Europe is
generally easier for a lot of guys than in the West, for various reasons, but
will usually not be as easy as the places listed above. The consensus on the
easiest spot in Eastern Europe seems to be Poland, so if you want white girls
and you want a lot of them, I might start by heading there. Note that both
Poland and Colombia are known for being fairly racist; if you’re dark-skinned,
you might find it easiest in Scandinavia, where the women have had a thing for
dark-skinned men for quite some time (hence, the migrant crisis). I haven’t
visited Sweden, but Alek has told me Stockholm has some of the easier, friendlier,
and more sex-positive women in Europe.
Staying Safe in the
Third World
Generally speaking, the easiest places to get laid
overseas are also some of the least safe. Robberies and kidnappings are common
in Africa, South America, and Oceania. I had a friend just a couple weeks ago
survive a kidnapping ordeal, in a third world city I’ve spent time in. They got
into absolutely every bank and other account he had while they had him before
they let him go... beat up, cut up, shaken up, but fortunately alive. In this
case, he made a not-street-smart move, and ended up nabbed. He was one of the
more fortunate ones; not everyone gets let go again.
If you read my prostitution article, you saw the story about another friend getting shaken down by
the police in a third world country. And just a few days ago there was an exposé on
visitors to Cancun being drugged, robbed, raped, and/or killed. This is stuff that happens in the third world.
For the most part, if you are street smart, and you
stay out of bad areas and don’t go places with strangers you’ve just met,
you’ll be okay. The only random person you should go anywhere with in less safe
places is a single pretty girl, and you should always be in the lead there,
too. Most kidnapping operations operate with a ‘bait’ person who befriends or
seduces you, then convinces you to go somewhere else... at which point when you
get there you discover a bunch of people with bats, knives, and guns waiting
for you. When you meet cute girls in unsafe places, take them to your
apartment or hotel room, don’t let them lead you somewhere. If
she refuses to go with you and insists you come with her to some great place,
just decline.
That said, if you are sufficiently street smart and
danger aware, the worst thing you will usually face in the third world is
pickpockets. Keep your stuff in your front pockets and don’t let anyone walk
too close to you or hang around you when you’re seated. Especially not street
rats, gypsies, etc. If you’re not street smart, stay out of the third world, or
only go in a group.
One other safety note: always keep a pulse on
changing tides in your country of choice. If it seems like the foreigners are
leaving or the country is getting less friendly toward foreigners, it’s time to
get out.
More Places to Go
For some of the spots we discussed above, check out
our guides:
For more places to head to overseas, check out my
detailed review on romantic options around the world, here:
#4: Party Job
That cool bartender working at a popular bar, or that jacked doorman deciding who comes in or gets kicked out of the big club. The DJ spinning tunes girls are swinging their hair around to... and who’ll be hosting a wicked after party once the bars all close. The busboy cleaning up tables and mingling as he goes. The club promoter who’s got the connections and the inside track. The owner or manager who goes around socializing, introducing people, and letting those he likes know to let him know if they have any problems. These are all examples of party jobs that put you in a great position to meet loads and loads of willing girls.
You usually need to be a little social to get the
most out of positions like these. But if you’ve got a mysterious cool vibe, or
you’re very good-looking, or attractive in some other way, you can make it work
too, even with lower sociability. There are a few points to making the party
job work:
· You’ll get more opportunities in popular places. The most popular spots get the hottest (and most dressed up) girls. They also see the greatest turnover – which means more
opportunities with more women. In addition, you working at a
popular spot is a greater status boost for you (thus making you more
attractive) than you working at a more ordinary spot.
· You’ll often need a little training. For bartender, you may need to take a bartending class
first, or, more likely, learn on-the-job at a smaller, less popular bar first.
For doorman, you’ll need to have muscles and be a trained fighter (martial
arts, military, etc.). The most popular venues usually only hire pros – that
means folks who’ve worked at a other, smaller places and learned the trade
first. So to get to the bigger places, you will usually need to work your way
up.
· The smaller venues can still be fruitful too. Don’t become so blinded by the sheen of the most popular
venues that you overlook the less popular ones. Smaller venues can still be
great – while they may not have as much turnover as the bigger venues, you
really only need one great connection with one cute girl per night to maximize
your output at a venue. Even if a smaller venue only has moderate turnover and
fewer cute girls, if you’re the cool, attractive bartender or big, studly
doorman, you can make it work.
One neat thing about party jobs is they don’t need
to be a full-time thing for you. Some guys have 9-to-5 jobs, then bounce or
bartend in the evenings. Some guys do it only a few days a week when it fits
their schedules. This need not be a career for you – it can be a hobby. One
that makes you some extra cash and lets you pile up notches.
Something else to bear in mind: not all party jobs
are at bars and nightclubs. Lifeguard at a beach popular with young people who
come there to party is another fantastic option. One of the most impressive
pickup displays I know of was a natural who lifeguarded at a party beach and entered a competition
with the other lifeguards there to see who could sleep with the most new girls
in a single summer. This guy pulled down 50 lays in three months... a little
more than one new lay every two days.
The advantages of working in a
location over just being a patron there, by the way, are:
· You have official status within the venue. You’re an insider. That gives you a status boost among
women (and women like status). It gives you in-venue authority (and women like authority). And it gives you top notch social proof, since all the other
in-venue staff buddy up with you – you’re friends with all the coolest, highest
status folks there (and women like social proof).
· You get to learn directly from guys who are already good. When you’re new to working in nightlife, you won’t know
the ‘rules’ yet, and you won’t be very good at picking up there. But almost
without fail, there will be at least one guy you work with who is very good
at it. Most likely, there will be multiple guys there who are very good at it.
You get to watch them work, day in and day out. You get to gradually emulate
them over time. And as they warm up to you, there’s a good chance they’ll take you under their wings and teach you
their tricks if they can
tell you’d like to know them.
· You have an excuse to be there all the time. If you’re not an insider and you go to the same bar
multiple times per week, there’s a risk you feel a little funny about it. At
the least, you’ll have to go out of your way to socialize with regulars and
meet the staff to not be too weird. And if you’re going to be there all the
time, why not just work there, anyway? You’ll never be on the
other side of the veil as a patron, no matter how often you go.
· Your own in-venue confidence goes way up. Humans feel more confident places where we know we
‘belong’. No getting around it, it’s just how we operate. If you work
there, once you are accepted by the other folks who work there, and it is your spot,
you will be far and away more confident in-venue than any non-employee. It
doesn’t matter who she is or how hot she is or how entitled she may be. She
still doesn’t ‘belong’ there as much as you do. She’s on your turf. You’re in
charge. And she can feel it. Women want to be around men who are more in charge
than they are.
So if you’ve got a place you’d like to spend a lot
of time, my suggestion? Why not get a job there... and use it to raise your
notch count.
#5: Instructor Job
This requires a certain degree of skill in
something. And it can’t just be anything. You’re going to get a lot less play
as, say, a firearms instructor or a golf instructor. Though depending on the
area and the kind of patrons you see, you might still be able to get laid off
those jobs. You just won’t do the same notch count numbers as with some other
instructor jobs.
But if you have one of these jobs:
- Ski instructor
- Snowboarding instructor
- Tennis instructor
- Yoga instructor
- Swim instructor
- Salsa/dance instructor
... and you pick a place to teach at that sees lots
of turnover and lots of young female students, you’re in good shape. What’s so
great about instructor jobs like this? Well:
· You’re the authority. You’re
continually telling them what to do, how to do it, when to do it. Your students
follow your lead non-stop. And what’s one of the big three keys to
attraction? Compliance. What do women do throughout your class as they
follow your lead, do what you tell them, and go where you say? Comply. Women’s
investment in following your lead arcs higher and higher as they go through the
class. By the end of it, they’ve been jumping through hoops you set up for an
hour or more. You’re in a very good place to make something happen with them at
that point.
· You have alpha male status. We’re talking
legitimate ‘alpha male’, in the ‘leader of the pack’ sense, not the ‘idealized
dominant attractive male’ manosphere sense. The alpha male is the leader of the
group, whom everyone else defers to. You aren’t just leading her; she sees you
leading everyone else, too. If there are cool, high status guys in
your student group, that just boosts you even more – these guys are listening
to/following you. This is a very attractive position for you to be in.
· She gets all worked up. As people
become more physically active, their sexual arousal goes up. So as you get her
worked up, running around, laboring, her blood rushing, she’s getting turned
on. Because you’re continually telling her what to do (and, possibly, flirting with her as you do so), you also anchor those emotions to yourself. Which means throughout the class,
she’s going to find herself more and more smitten with you.
Guys who’ve settled into a good instructor job and
figured out their routines (both for teaching and for picking up) tend to do
quite well. So long as the job features lots of turnover of attractive women,
jobs like these are easy ways to get laid a lot in a hurry.
#6: Hotel or Hostel Worker
The guys who seem to do the absolute best here are
the owners of hotels and hostels. But there’s also plenty of opportunity to get
lots of notches working the front desk or at the bar, too. The key is,
again, it must be a place that sees lots of turnover of lots of young,
attractive women.
Thus, for this reason, hostels will often be your
best bet. In particular, the most popular hostels will often be the best – cute
girls like to go to popular places.
I won’t go into too much detail on this option...
it’s straightforward. You’ll be working at the hostel, girls will come in on a
vacation, and they’ll be hanging around the hostel or looking for things to do.
It’s easy to flirt with and hit on them then, and if they want something to do,
plan a day or night out, go along with them (“If you wait till I’m off work,
I’ll go with you and show you the ropes”), and seduce the girl you want while
out. William discusses hostels more in his article on getting laid backpacking, and Colt talks about it in his article on sleeping with girls during travel abroad.
Hotels are a little harder to get right than
hostels. You need the right hotel – one that attracts a lot of single young
women. Usually this will be a classier hotel (single young women seem to be
less partial to Motel 6 and the Holiday Inn), often located in the heart of
downtown, near the party areas. Get it right, and you get a stream of women
coming and going, who are there on vacation, with no ties to the city, and are
much more open to a quick, anonymous fling than your average girl living in
town with you. After all, she doesn’t live there. So it “doesn’t count”!
#7: Motorcycle Owner
Rounding out our
list is the motorcycle owner. If there’s one thing you can pull your wallet out
and buy that serves as close to a ‘magic pill’ with women as you can get, it’s
a motorcycle.
I’ve talked to countless guys who own or have owned
motorcycles, and they all tell me the same thing:
- “When I bought my motorcycle, it
was like all of a sudden every girl wanted a ride.”
- “After I sold my motorcycle, it was
like what the heck! Where did all the girls go?”
Motorcycle owners have told me their standard pickup
routine is often just to go to bars, chat up a girl, and at some point drop a
mention of the motorcycle. Then invite her for a ride. When she says ‘yes’, the
guy just zips around town with her, gets her blood pumping from the excitement
of it (while she’s clinging to him the whole time)... and then ends up at his
place or a secluded spot somewhere. Easy.
Make sure you have a second helmet for your pretty
passenger, of course. Don’t want to split any skulls in a spill.
But if you know how to ride, and you want an easy
way to get a lot more notches, it’s ‘motorcycle’.
Whenever you talk about notches, there are folks who
don’t like it. They don’t see the point of it. They think it’s a waste of time.
Or they feel like you’re telling them they have to get more
notches.
This article’s not for guys like that. I’m not
talking about what you should do or have to
do... that’s not my domain. Nor is it an area where I have expertise. I leave
‘should’ to priests and preachers. I’m just handing you tools. Use ‘em if
you’ve got a use for ‘em; don’t if you haven’t one.
That said, I will share a few reasons guys like to
rack up notches.
Male Motivations for Notch Collecting
The big reasons a guy will want more notches
include:
· Sensation: he just loves
being inside women’s bodies, and in particular loves being inside new women’s
bodies. It’s pleasurable, and addicting. He likes it, he loves it... he wants
more of it. It feels good. This man is all about sensation, and the
sensation of a new female body is about as good a sensation as you can get.
· Proving to himself: men settle on
all kinds of things they want to prove to themselves they can do. This isn’t
just about ego; it is about a man proving his efficacy to himself. If he can
accomplish the thing he sets out to do, he will know, for the rest of his life,
he is a man who can do what he sets his mind on. Collecting a certain number of
notches is one of those things a guy can decide he wants to do... for himself.
· Proving to others: I try to
discourage guys from this motivation if I can. Some guys get it into their
heads that no one is going to like or respect them until they’ve been with ##
girls. This might be true among a tiny segment of highly notch count-focused
naturals or pickup artists... but almost nobody else really cares. Most normal
people, if they hear you’ve been with 50 women or 100 women, instead of 5 or
10, will say, “Wow, that’s crazy,” or, “Damn, that’s cool,” and then move on
and start thinking about what they’re going to have for lunch (BLT? Panini? Or
maybe some kebab? All good choices!). Thus, this motivation is based in lack of
empathy; the man who has it doesn’t realize that in fact, other people do not
really care what his notch count is. If you’re this guy, if you’re going to
pursue loads of notches, do it for yourself, not for others.
· Experience gathering: to some
extent, it’s worth racking up notches to get experienced enough with the kind of women you want to date. If you’re a
discerning man, you might have a pretty sound idea after five to 10 notches; if
you’re very undiscerning you might need to hit 40 or 50. Past a
certain extent it’s counterproductive though... I’ve known guys who hit 100
lays, then realized they were never getting girls they actually wanted to date
and have a relationship with, and ended up having a kind of romantic crisis of
faith (“I’ve banged all these girls and the girlfriends I get still suck!
WTF!”). Of course, if your goal is just straight up “I want to be single and bang
chicks forever” (e.g., if you’re a hardcore sensation-seeker), the experience
of shagging lots of girls makes it very, very easy for you to sleep with more
new girls... once you’ve had enough women, you’ve encountered everything a girl
can throw at you, just about.
· Memories: you’re not
going to be young (or newly single, if you’ve just divorced) forever. And that
motivation you have to go out and shag your way through bountiful beautiful
women won’t always be there. If you’re the sort who likes to look back and
reminisce, it can be worthwhile accumulating enough notches to look back on
with fondness as you age. Someday the drive just won’t be there anymore... but
the memories still will be.
Different guys want more notches for different
reasons. I think any of these are fine, except for the “I’ve got to prove
myself to these haters” type reason. Even that reason can be useful to
an extent... if it drives you to go out there, put the work in, and level
your skill up. So long as you don’t spend too much time
chasing after notches just to show the people who doubted you how wrong they
were, it’s fine. Use it to make yourself better, enjoy some great new women,
and at the end of it you’ll likely have exorcised your demons... but now with a
great new skill set at your disposal, to use for your own enjoyment, or to get
that awesome girlfriend you’ve always wanted to have.
The Easiest Ways to Get Laid: Recap
Let’s wrap up. In this article, we covered the seven
(7) easiest ways I know of rack up lots and lots of notches in a big hurry. The
goal was not to get a girlfriend. It wasn’t to develop your game. It wasn’t to
make a statement or build a legacy or contribute to mankind. It was
just to pile as many girls in your bed in as short a period of time as
possible.
Our seven ways to do that, in order of
effectiveness, are:
- Sex Tourism
- Party Destination Job
- Third World Pickup
- Party Job
- Instructor Job
- Hotel or Hostel Worker
- Motorcycle Owner
Three of these (#s 1-3) require travel, and probably
long-term relocation if you really want a ton of notches. Four of them (#s 2
and 4-6) are jobs... part-time or full-time. And #7 requires you to make a not
insignificant purchase (motorcycle).
Thus, whichever of these paths you pick, you’re
going to need to change your lifestyle.
What if you don’t want to change your lifestyle?
Then you aren’t cut out for shortcuts. You’ll have to do things the old
fashioned way: study, practice, hard work, and elbow grease.
But if your goal is more women in your bed, and you
want to get there fast, and you’re down to do whatever it takes...
there you have it. Seven different paths you can choose from – pick the one you
like best.
Bear in mind there’s an adjustment period for most
of these. You’ll might take a month or two to figure out your angle picking up
in the third world, for instance. Western-style game often doesn’t work as well
in the third world. Western guys are often too aloof, too asshole-ish, or too
indirect in the third world (because aloof, indirect asshole game works well in
the West, so guys learn this style and bring it with them). There’s a period of
un-learning you need to go through before you reach full power. Likewise for a
party job – you’ll spend a while learning the ropes, building the relationships
with your coworkers, getting comfortable in the environment, and watching how
the guys you work with who are good work their angle and pick up girls.
Once you’re up-to-speed though, each of these
options offers you a girl-getting cheat code that gets you notch counts out of
reach to almost everyone else out there. The cool bartender at a popular bar
will tend to have a higher notch count than even the most talented natural or
pick up artist you’ll meet who doesn’t take advantage of a
shortcut like this. Of course, he’s much more limited in selection and venue
than the natural and the pickup artist; he’s very good at getting girls in his
one particular environment, which attracts one particular type of girl. If he
wants to meet a different kind of girl, or a girl outside his environment,
he’ll struggle. But accumulating pure, raw notch counts, tapping into
one of these short-cuts is your path to the highest numbers achievable.
Make sure to pick something you enjoy. Nothing worse
than devoting a bunch of your time to something you don’t like. But if you like
bars, or tennis, or salsa, or yoga, or exotic travel, or lifeguarding at the
beach, or spending time in party resorts, or riding motorcycles... pick one of
these easy ways to get laid that’s fun, and go carve some notches.
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