Getting Laid In 2020 : A Simple Guide (With Helpful Pics)
Getting Laid In 2020 : A
Simple Guide
Getting laid in 2020 for an
average guy is more difficult than ever. In this post I’ll show you exactly
what you need to do to get laid…Fast!
Read this guide to get laid asap and start to enjoy a
happier sex life.
Common Reasons You Are
Not Getting Laid
“I need to get laid so bad!”. If you’re familiar with
these thoughts, here are the most common reasons why you are not getting laid.
Not Approaching Women
This is by far the single biggest reason why there are
a lot of unhappy and lonely guys who are not getting laid.
Think about a typical guys night
out:
You often see a bunch of guys standing close together
“having a good time” .
You can get a sense that there is something a little
forced and strained about them and they don’t appear to be really enjoying
themselves.
They don’t appear relaxed, enjoying the moment and
each others company.
Typical signs of this:
Over raucous laughter and back slapping or low energy,
not talking much, a sense that the party is elsewhere.
You’ll see the odd brave soldier break ranks, head
like a meerkat, darting furtive glances around the room, looking for girls.
Observe more closely and you’ll see a swift expression
of animal longing on his face and an almost audible sigh as he turns back to
his mates again.
If you stay and observe for long enough you can sense
the tension rising. Everyone in the group is thinking the same thing “For fuck’s sake when is something going to happen, when am I
going to get laid?” but no one does
a thing about it.
The talk and banter might well revolve around women
but everyone carefully skirts around the subject that no one is doing a thing
about it and everyone is desperately trying not to lose face by (gasp)
potentially getting blown out.
Result: No one is getting laid!
Solution: Before you go out on a lads night out, think of 1 or two
stock opening lines that you can use to get a conversation going.
Just use that line to approach, and let the chips fall
where they may.
My guide to approaching women can
help you get this down more smoothly
Weird Behaviour /
facial expressions
I once went out to a singles night in London because I
find it quite amusing to see how desperate women act when they want some cock.
There were quite a few guys there who had the “rape or
kill face” that I’ve seen all too often.
OK this might be a bit disrespectful but it is
interesting to watch how men and women act in an environment where it is
*expected* that they will approach and talk to each other.
The rape or kill face appears I think because a guy
hasn’t got the checks and balances of being in a group and therefore has less
impetus to socialise and keep face.
Now, if I can spot this, don’t you
think that women can too? I’ve used these
lighthearted examples just to illustrate a point.
The fact is at any given time in any given venue, only
a small fraction of guys actually take matters into their own hands and just have a go.
How Men Get Laid In
Other Countries
This is accepted behaviour in the UK but in other
countries – Italy, some parts of Eastern Europe, the opposite is true.
Men are absolute HORN DOGS over
there and try it on with women all the time (a lot of them are sleazy like Pepe Le Pew but that doesn’t
matter right now. That can be fixed with just a few behavioural changes)
Tight game mate!
Getting the kind of women you like means you might
well have to make some big changes to your beliefs, grow as a man, improve your
body, posture, get more presence, etc etc.
But you have to start somewhere
and there is no reason why you can’t start today.
Depending on where you start off, you could start
getting results almost immediately. If you’ve got a halfway responsible job, if
you’ve travelled, had girlfriends before, then you’re well on the way there!
All you have to do is have a go. Go and talk to her.
Anywhere and everywhere – bar, nightclub, street, library, on the bus or tube,
street. Just think of a simple opener, start a conversation, and let the chips
fall where they may.
What you say really does not
matter. It’s more important to create sexual tension.
Not taking care of the
basics
This includes:
• Letting your body go
• Not paying attention to wearing clothes that fit
properly
• Having poor posture
• Not being assertive and “manly” enough
I don’t care how good your game is….If you look like
this you’re fucked.
I recommend sorting out your body and health with
regular exercise and the gym. This can make a massive difference in how you
look and act (to a certain extent).
Get Your Mindset And Beliefs Sorted : Primal Seduction Book
Exercise and in particular gym
work is key in building self esteem – one of the
essential building blocks to becoming a naturally attractive man.
You don’t need to look like a bodybuilder (in fact
this can be counter productive) but if you don’t have any ‘physical presence’
then you are starting off from a low point and everything that follows is an
uphill struggle.
When you first meet people, they will make a quick
first impression of you within seconds (we all do it).
Being perceived as a loser, a geek, or boring from the
first second will make everything that follows much more difficult.
On a basic level that means getting contact lenses if
you need glasses (unless they fit the particular image you’re trying to
project), getting in shape, wearing clothes that fit properly, taking care of
your hygiene, dealing with your hair, skin etc.
If you don’t have these things
sorted, then you are pretty much wasting your time. If you really don’t know what you’re doing when it comes to stuff
like this, it may well be worth paying a professional.
At a more advanced level you should be looking to
maximise your image by finding what suits you best and what you like to wear.
Personally I like fitted T Shirts and jeans. Suits and
shirts just do not work for me because of my body shape but also because of the
image I like to portray.
The key aspect is finding what
works for you, and what you like. Don’t try to
follow trends because they change all the time and you want your clothes to be
part of broadcasting to the world who you are.
In terms of posture: ask your friends or people you
meet to give you feedback. Do you stoop, or slouch? Is your spine straight? Ask
if you have “presence”
Improving your posture is a big subject and takes time
– but if the feedback you are getting from your friends, and your experience in
the dating world is consistently bad, then it’s likely that your posture is
doing you no favours at all.
You can start by taking practical steps : join a Yoga
Class and search around for a posture class in your area (the Alexander
Technique is good). If this is an issue, use google and find home exercises.
What I do is check myself at various points throughout
the day. If I’m slouching, I make a deliberate effort to sit up straight. If
I’m standing with my shoulders stooped, I deliberately raise them back and keep
my spine erect.
Finally, if you work in a sedentary environment, make
sure that you are not hunched over your keyboard.
Get a monitor and make sure it is at eye level and sit
up straight. Over time it makes a big difference in your posture.
Not Being Assertive
Enough
Here are some simple exercises to begin:
• Count how many times you say “sorry” in a day. And
try to stop saying it!
• Walk down the street and hold your line. Don’t move
and wait for other people to move out of your way
• When you walk, hold your head high and your gaze looking
forward. When you see women, hold eye contact with them and DON’T LOOK AWAY
(You will be surprised how difficult this can be!)
• When you go to a busy or crowded bar, again hold
your position and space and don’t let other men push you around. Don’t be
aggressive or an arsehole about it, but just hold your ground.
• When you are in an environment like this, if you
need to move somewhere else, make your way through the crowd firmly, smoothly
and without apologising. Don’t let people stop you from going where you want to
go.
Having poor or
disempowering beliefs
This one is so common. Your beliefs form your
identity, which transmits itself through everything you do, say, the way you
stand, your facial expressions, posture, body language.
It is almost impossible to hide your real self, and a
waste of time to try. Your beliefs about yourself make up your identity. They
also form the core of your self esteem.
They basically dictate how you feel about yourself on
a moment by moment basis (and therefore what you project out to the world).
Challenging negative (and probably untrue!) beliefs
about yourself and replacing them with new and empowering ones is probably the
most important thing you can do to get laid.
Here are some empowering beliefs:
I am a good guy and I like myself.
I am intrinsically worthwhile enough to attract the
kind of woman I want
How do you go about replacing your old negative
beliefs and replacing them with empowering new ones?
1:/ Get reference experience to
support your new empowering beliefs.
If you are regularly approaching women, you are
probably already gathering evidence – reference experiences – that support
these beliefs. Every time you have a success, remember it and use it as
evidence to support what you want to believe. For negative experiences, be
accurate and use it as feedback.
2:/ Just open your eyes and stop
making incorrect assumptions!
If you see an average looking guy with a hot girl,
don’t just assume “money”.
There are average guys with hot, lovely women everywhere
who probably have no money at all! Instead of getting insecure or upset about
it, use this as further evidence that you can do it too!
3:/ As well as getting the
feedback from approaching and meeting more women, seek out others who are
closer to where you want to be.
Mentors, effectively. Spend time with them. Be humble
and honest about what you are trying to do. You’ll find that if you adopt this
approach they may be willing to help. Don’t bombard them with questions.
What you are trying to do is pick up on their core
beliefs almost by osmosis. Just by spending time and hanging out with them, you
will begin to do this.
Good luck!
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