How To Attract A Girl: 10 Psychology Techniques To Attract Her Forever!
How
to attract women! This is what every man wants to know when he is dating and
looking to have relationships with women. This is also the holy grail of all
questions asked by men when it comes to the seduction process. A lot of times,
men think it’s more complicated than it really is, but it’s actually quite
simple!
What makes me say
this? As a woman that works with men to help them master the art of attraction
and get results, I give you the NO BS answers on how women think and the right
ways to attract women. I can offer you
insight that no man can really know or understand since I’m a woman myself!
This is probably
one of my most favorite blogs to date because this is something that I know
works, and I am going to give you results that make you switch your way of
attracting women to the right way. In this blog, you will find that I am going
to go over EVERYTHING you need to know in order to successfully attract women. I am not going
to give you any BS advice about listening to her, supporting her, being nice to
her, no! Though respect is incredibly important, I am going to give you real
results. Ready?
I love hearing from you so please comment below with
your thoughts and any questions after reading this blog.
How To Make A Girl Attracted To You With These 7
Mindsets
The way you
approach this situation is going to make a huge difference, so let’s take a
look at what you need to keep in mind.
#1 You do not have to prove yourself to anyone
You have clarity in your life about who you are as a
person. If you are not going to be desired by this one specific woman, you know
you will be desired by another woman! You don’t say things to get her to like
you, you know that you are enough and you don’t think women are better than
you.
#2 You are not addicted to an outcome
You don’t seek validation from another person and
when you meet women, you don’t attach to a specific outcome even when you find
a girl you like. You don’t put pressure on the woman to like you, because you
come from a mindset that even though you might like her, you’re OK with or
without her. When you start to get attached to an outcome or have expectations
of this woman in the dating phase, you run the risk of becoming needy and
overbearing.
#3 What value can I offer someone without
expectations
Don’t go into this thinking, “What can I get out of
this and what am I going to receive from this?” Instead, look at it without
expectations and just be in the present moment. Show her you’re built with
integrity by being your best self.
#4 Unapologetically honest mindset
You’re not going to say “You look fat in that dress,”
but you have your own opinion so don’t be scared to react to something you may
or may not agree on. Women don’t want someone to just absent-mindedly agree
with them.
#5 Value your time to see if this woman is worth it
A lot of times men fixate on the aesthetics of the
woman and fall for just that and don’t get to know what’s underneath the
surface. Figure out what this woman is worth. Does she want something more
serious or does she just want to have fun?
#6 You show up powerfully
You know who you
are and are not pretending to be anyone else. Own your power and don’t hold
back on saying and doing what you want. You become powerful when you focus on
more than just the woman in front of you; A life focus.
#7 Compassionate and patient
Some men take automatic offense to anything and
everything a woman says. You want to be someone who does not get irritated very
easily. If not, it will show that you let other people control your emotions
and have a short fuse. This shows a woman that you may not be stable and not
have a sense of control over your emotions.
#8 You embrace failures with confidence
How you look at your mistakes as lessons and how you
are in the moment when things aren’t going your way shows your character, so
embrace failures with confidence and poise. Make sure you build the skills you
need so you can avoid future issues.
How can a man attract a woman by avoiding neediness
and pushiness
Remember, when it comes to attracting a woman, it’s
not about focusing on her so much that you lose your own sense of self-worth
and dignity in the process. A lot of times you can become your own worst enemy
by getting in your own way and putting a lot of pressure on yourself to impress
a woman when it’s not that difficult. Why? Because as a woman that has been in
the dating game, I know when a man is putting a lot of pressure on himself to
impress me and it makes me feel less attracted and less intrigued. It’s
important to understand the difference between pursuing and being needy, and I
believe this is where the breakdown is important when it comes to attracting
women.
Pursuing: Claiming a
date and being assertive in the direction that you are taking with her. Show
her that you are not interested in just
being a nice guy but you are pursuing her by
planning dates, checking in every once and a while and making sure she
initiates as well. You create chemistry together on dates and talk about more
than surface-level things. You aren’t afraid to talk about your wants and
desires, but you also have an attitude about you that shows her that if she
does not like you, you’re OK with that too. You are in demand with yourself and
might even be in demand with other women. It’s important to understand that
women are naturally attracted to masculine energy and that comes from the
pursuit. During the first couple of dates, pursue her, create banter, be
positive, but also be ok with giving
her space. If you spend the whole weekend together because
everything is going great, then make sure you understand that this will not be
every weekend and you are not attached to a specific outcome.
Needy: You are
attached to a specific outcome and you want to be with her right now and expect
her to give you attention when you want it. You may, therefore, react out of
neediness and reply to her texts in a way that comes off as aggressive or
clingy because your emotions are not aligned with abundance and integrity. The
#1 reason for this is because you get attached to a specific outcome right away
and you are not ok with going with the flow of how this dating process should
work between the both of you. You might even get into a “scarcity mindset,”
where you think she is dating other guys, so you get jealous, and you bring up
petty things that push her away instead of attracting her.
How to attract women without talking: The key to
success!
Pursue a purpose:
When you are not
driven intentionally by something you love, besides a woman, you can easily
attach to love and that specific person. This, in turn, can hurt the relationship
and yourself. Women love a man that has a purpose and follows his passion because it
showcases strength and resilience, and it’s hard to sweat the small stuff when
you won’t let anyone hold you back from pursuing what you need to do. This
showcases dignity and independence with women. I’m not saying you should forget
about this woman and just focus on your passion, but you should showcase to her
how important your purpose is in your life.
Pace yourself:
Remember guys,
women typically are the decision-makers when it comes to sex and the man is the
decision-maker when it comes to the relationship. You have to make sure you
know what this woman is all about and not get hooked just based on the story
you’re telling yourself, or “How she could be”. Make sure you really get to know
what this woman is all about before you give her all of you. Make sure both of
you are looking for the same things and have the same goal in mind. Pursue with
intent, not with lack of intent. The best way to do this is by staying on your purpose but not seeking external validation
and not getting attached to the need for validation.
Give her space:
A sense of
independence is hot! Ao giving her space is good. She has to see a part of
your life you are excited about. When you desire something else besides her, it
shows a strong masculine presence and the woman feels that she still has to
work for something. This continues or boosts attraction. Women want a man of
status and when you showcase status, in other words, that you place importance
on other things besides her, it keeps women interested and they want to be a
part of that with you.
Prioritize your time:
This has a lot to
do with pursuing. Pursue with a purpose. Be clear on when
you want to see her and be disciplined enough to focus on your own goals when
you’re in the attraction stage and when you are starting to date. You want to
show a woman that you manage your life well and it’s not all about her in the
beginning, but you’re interested in where this could go in the future.
Stop being hooked on an expectation:
A lot of times you can’t to any of the above because
you get hooked on expectations of what you must get from this woman and you
have a goal in mind before she even has one. This is what I call the
“Blinders.” You have your blinders on and you want a specific goal or have a
specific expectation, so you build up to worry and/or doubt since your
expectations may not be met, and this is exacrly where you can come off
overbearing, needy, or plenty of other things. Having expectations too early on
is the root of killing attraction.
See yourself as quality:
Placing a high value on yourself shows the woman that
she has something to work for as well. Never think you’re less than anyone.
Instead, think about the qualities you have that will impact any woman’s life!
Eradicate all jealousy:
Some women will try to make you jealous. An insecure
guy focuses on the other guy and starts to get jealous. The secure guy focuses
on her and questions her intentions in terms of what she may be doing or why
she may be saying certain things. You question her, not the guy, because you
couldn’t care less about the guy!
Body Language:
Hold your head up and shoulders back with integrity.
Don’t fidget or overthink things. There is something very attractive about the
calm demeanor of a man. This is a topic that I explore in my Escalation Cheat
Sheet, and you can it right here.
Showcase social proof “status”:
Understand that
these traits are under your control. Social proof can be defined by your
lifestyle choices, occupation, how you groom yourself, health and
fitness, confidence and lack of neediness in your
behavior. As I have studied the human brain, research has shown that women are
primarily attracted to men who are perceived to be of a higher status. That’s
why it so important to make sure you are constantly advancing in your life and
putting in the work.
As a woman, I’ve dated men that were still in college
and living with their parents, but they had an inner confidence that still
showcased status. I would notice men like this had no problem getting women.
They actually had women support them while they were working on getting on
their feet. Status is determined by behavior! By the way, sexual attraction is
determined by behavior as well.
Make her chase you:
Let her initiate with you a bit. Don’t let her just
stay on the sidelines and do no work. No text, no calls, nothing! Women do want
to be pursued by men, but they are great at reciprocating. So make sure this
woman is doing this in the beginning and then after a couple of weeks of
dating, make sure she is initiating.
How to attract any woman by not being the needy man!
Let’s say you have everything going for you but as
soon as you meet a woman you like, you immediately get hooked! Which results in
fight or flight mode in your mind. You find yourself trying so hard, as though
this is your only opportunity with a woman. This turns into needy behavior when
everything you had going for you goes down the drain.
I would
never want you to disregard your feelings but I
do want you to be disciplined enough on when
you should and should not showcase them as a result of neediness. Here are some
guidelines designed to help you out:
Lying to a woman
to make yourself become more attractive in her eyes.
NEEDINESS
NEEDINESS
Always working to
impress a woman instead of seeing if she can impress you
NEEDINESS
NEEDINESS
Calling a woman
multiple times because she didn’t call you back or you never got an
answer. NEEDINESS
Understanding if a
woman never called you back then she was not the right one anyway.
NOT NEEDY
NOT NEEDY
Rising up and
expressing your masculinity pertaining to desires and interest. Openly,
honestly and respectfully.
NOT NEEDY
NOT NEEDY
Accepting
criticism of yourself from others by always saying “yes” instead of “no”.
NEEDINESS
NEEDINESS
Being fearful,
hiding your flaws and not calling yourself out to make light of the situation.
NEEDINESS
NEEDINESS
Being comfortable
with not being perfect and finding humor in your flaws.
NOT NEEDY
NOT NEEDY
Feeling like you
have to CONTROL and “dominate”.
NEEDINESS
NEEDINESS
Having high
standards about the women you date and want a woman who enjoys you and makes
you happy! Treating a woman as an equal.
NOT NEEDY
NOT NEEDY
Resenting the
woman you date and talking down to her since this you think will make her want you.
NEEDINESS
NEEDINESS
Constantly
investing in improving yourself for yourself ONLY. Not to impress a woman or to
make people like you, but to be happier with yourself!
NOT NEEDY
NOT NEEDY
Improving yourself
only to impress a girl you like.
NEEDINESS
NEEDINESS
Thinking that life
is better with this one specific woman, even if she does not want you.
NEEDINESS
NEEDINESS
Stalking her
social media accounts and then asking her about these things later or asking
her about other men.
NEEDINESS
NEEDINESS
Disciplined enough
to question her intentions and respect for you or the relationship (and not the
other man.)
NOT NEEDY
NOT NEEDY
Not granting her
wishes by continuing to try to persuade her after she told you to leave her
alone or that she does not want to be with you.
NEEDINESS
NEEDINESS
Giving the
relationship time, focusing on what will make you happier and more solid in
your life with no attachment to being with this specific woman, and being open
to reconciling in the future.
NOT NEEDY
NOT NEEDY
Needy behavior
will only attract toxic relationships, unfulfilling relationships, and needy
women. If you’ve been needy in the past then you have most likely been in
dysfunctional relationships. If you have not been able to attract women in your life, then chances are
you’ve been so needy in your own behavior that you’ve consciously or
subconsciously decided to remain alone.
If this is you, I
encourage you to invest in my Master Attractor- Friend
Zone no more course to get you out of this!
How Do You Attract Women With Confidence:
Women are turned
on by bold behavior and from my research and studies, when you understand the
difference between the female mind and the male mind, then you will understand
this. I teach this in my membership
group and in my boot camps. Women desire bold
behavior and a man who displays bravery, and direct sexual desire, especially
to a woman who is interested.
You must go out
there and start trying to attract women so you can learn your
authentic techniques. You cannot build expectations for everything to go the
way you want because you learn through practice. If you get nervous around women, it can be a turn off
so you have to push yourself to continue until it becomes a routine. When it
becomes something you’re used to, the nervousness goes away.
If you’re afraid
to talk to her, ask her out, ask for a kiss, or even to take her home, chances
are you will be the friend or the guy that never gets the
girl. Men underestimate how forward they can be with women. So, they
underestimate how effective this can be to open up sexual desires and
compatibility with women.
“Here’s what one of our members said: “I was able to
identify exactly what I was doing wrong. I went out on two dates and made out
with a woman all night and she continues to initiate with me and have another
date lined up. This product really helped me understand what I was doing wrong.
I would recommend this to every guy out there that needs some guidance or help!
-Dylan 38”
Becoming an attractive man to a
high-quality woman is about being a man that invests in himself and wears his
sense of pride with dignity, with respect for himself and caring for himself,
but not in a manipulative or narcissistic way. How you feel about yourself is
how you perceive others, and the key is understanding that beautiful women are
out there, but the most important thing is what’s underneath. External
investments will not lead you to find love and an empowering relationship. This
is a superficial and dysfunctional relationship, and in the worst-case
scenario, it will bring you absolutely nothing and will probably set you back.
So proceed with caution, guys.
My hope is that this blog gives you a solid
foundation on how to attract women and understand the major principles that
women want in a man. I’ve written tons of other articles about this so don’t
worry, it does not just stop here!
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