HOW TO GET LAID ON THE FIRST DATE
IMPROVE YOUR ODDS OF TAKING HER
HOME WITH THESE 10 EXPERT TIPS.
Let’s face it: For most guys, if you’re interested in a woman
enough to pursue her, ask her out, and take her on a date, then you’re probably
interested enough to want to take things in a physical direction, too. So, how
do you make sure the night ends with fun in your bed instead of a hug on her
doorstep? Nick Savoy, publisher of Date! The
Proven Handbook for Men is here to supply some tips.
1. START AT YOUR PLACE, END AT YOUR PLACE
Tell her to
come over and you’ll both go out from there. She doesn’t even have to come
inside (though it’s good if she does, and feels comfortable). At the end of the
night, you’re guaranteed to get her back to your place, since that’s where her
car will be. From there, it’s easy to invite her in for one last drink…
2. GET THE KISS OUT OF THE WAY EARLY
On most dates,
the woman is going to make a “should we or shouldn’t we” decision at the end of
the night. If you haven’t kissed her yet, then that’s what she’ll be deciding.
Raise the stakes by getting the first kiss out of the way early— move in at one
of the first emotional high points of the evening.
3. DON’T BE A TALKING HEAD
Have you ever
had a great date, brought a woman home, and sat on the couch while figuring out
how to “make your move”? That’s usually a first-class ticket to Let’s Just Be
Friends-ville. Touching and kissing should be a natural progression all night,
not some big, awkward shift. Start by touching her shoulders or elbow or
playfully putting your arm around her, and gauge her reaction from there.
4. KEEP MOVING
It’s a proven
psychological principle that people will feel closer to one another when
they’ve spent time in different environments together. So, don’t just plop your
butt down for a five-hour dinner. Think shorter times at several different
places—or even move around where you are.
5. STAY ON YOUR TURF
For a first
date, go to a place that you’re familiar with, ideally where you know people.
Women look to how other people treat you for cues about your personality. The
more you’re treated like a highly valued man, the more she will think that’s
true. In contrast, if you’re on her turf and competing for her attention, it’ll
be 10 times harder for her to feel attracted to you.
6. DON'T PLAN A DINNER OR MOVIE DATE
Good dates
involve places where there is external entertainment (not just conversation,
like at dinner), where the two of you can talk, and where touching is easy.
Sitting across from each other at dinner or mutely side-by-side at the movies
accomplishes nothing. Next time, try something fun and different, like karaoke
or a comedy club.
7. DON’T SPEND TOO MUCH
Yeah, for
real. You risk her feeling that you are trying too hard (unattractive) or are
trying to buy her affection (unattractive and sleazy). Or, worse, she might
decide that if this is what you spend to try to get in her pants, she’s never
going to let you get too far, so you keep spending. Still, this doesn’t mean you
should be cheap or expect her to pay half.
8. DON'T TAKE YOURSELF TOO SERIOUSLY
One mistake
that seemingly 99% of men make is they are far too serious when meeting and
dating women. Be playful. Show confidence. Even the most educated and successful
woman wants to have fun when she’s on a date. And even the most high-powered
woman is still a woman. If she’s a CEO, she’s been treated as a CEO all day. Be
the man who treats her like a woman.
9. TAKE THE LEAD
Nervousness,
frustration, and indecision are very unattractive qualities in a man,
especially on a first date. This is your opportunity to show her that you can
handle whatever life throws at you with presence and poise. Plan the date, have
backup options, and trust yourself. If the night feels comfortable to her, she
will feel comfortable.
10. BE PREPARED
A lot of
random things happen in the dating world, many of which are out of your
control. Make sure that what is under your control is taken care of. Keep a
condom in your back pocket. Keep your car and house acceptably clean. Pile
stuff on chairs in your living room so you and she have nowhere to sit but
side-by-side on the couch. Have girl-friendly drinks and snacks at home.
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